Does the effort you’re putting into your relationship not seem to be helping?
If so, it’s time to change your game plan. Shift your mindset, focus, and goals and set yourself up for success with personal coaching.
Who is relationship coaching for?
Whether you’re struggling in your relationship or trying to take it from good to great, the simple goal of loving well each day can make a world of difference in your life.
If you’re single, learning to consistently love well (even when it’s not easy) also provides significant benefits. 1) It will help prepare you for future relationships. 2) When your goal is to love well, it makes it easier to recognize if a potential partner loves well or not. 3) It makes you more attractive to the type of person you want to attract … someone who also loves well.
Regardless of where you’re at in your life, personal coaching (even for a short time) will help you experience much more success. I’ll come along side you, review your game film together, and give you additional tools to help you reach your goal each day.
Setting a goal to love well each day doesn’t just make us better spouses or partners. It also helps us become better parents, siblings, sons, daughters, friends, neighbors, and co-workers.
What will I learn with The Goal is to Love Well™ program?
How to develop a healthy mindset and set yourself up for success each day
Loving well—especially when it’s not easy— requires being intentional each morning. It begins with a CHOICE to love well that’s as powerful as you want it to be. (If you don’t believe that, I’ll share a game show example with you that will challenge your doubt.)
It also requires an understanding that we can LEARN to love better each day and that loving well is a reflection of STRENGTH. And even though we’re aware it requires strength and courage, the myth that showing love is weak is often disguised so well that we don’t recognize we’ve fallen into the trap.
You have more power to positively influence your relationship than you think! There is HOPE for both your relationship and you as an individual.
How to not become distracted by things outside your control and focus on your own actions
Even with the best intentions to show love each day, it’s easy to get distracted by things that can keep us from loving our best (i.e., things our partner said or did … or didn’t say or do; the mistakes we made last week or 5 minutes ago; a lack of progress; etc.)
How to more objectively evaluate how well you loved each day
Since we tend to judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions, I’ll teach you the Shouda, Woulda, Coulda Method ™ of “reviewing your game film.” This simple process, which can be done when you close your eyes at night, allows you to evaluate your actions more objectively and prompts you to think of different ways you can love better tomorrow.
How to put strategies in place to help you reach your goal each day
I’ll show you how to use the If/Then Planning Principle ™ to prepare for situations that are more likely to trip you up and prevent you from reaching your goal.
How It Works
Schedule a Free 1 on 1
Schedule an initial 15-30 minute strategy session at no cost. If The Goal is to Love Well™ program sounds like a good fit from both sides, we’ll set up the best plan for you.
Select A Coaching Plan
Choose private video sessions or get outdoors and combine your sessions with a round of golf or hiking.
(See options below.)
Reach Your Goals
As your relationship coach, I’ll come along side you, review your game film together, and give you additional tools and personalized strategies to help you reach your goal each day.
We’ll strive for growth and improvement each day. When stacked together, even small, 1% improvements will become undeniable over time.
Weekly Coaching (4, 8, or 12 weeks)
Private 1 on 1 coaching sessions conducted virtually from the comfort of your own home.
More Details
Since only so much progress can be made in a single session, the minimum coaching package is 4 sessions.
Golf Package
Get private 1 on 1 coaching while you enjoy a round of golf on the course of your choice. This is a great option if prefer a more laid-back approach and don’t want to miss any time on the links!
More Details
Schedule a single round or multiple days back-to-back.
You pick the course and set up the tee time.
Receive approximately 4 hours of private coaching while you relax and play 18 holes.
Hiking Getaway
Private 1 on 1 coaching in the serenity and beauty of the great outdoors.
More Details
Get your coaching session while hiking in sunny Arizona or the location of your choice.
Testimonials
I use a coach for the things that are most important in my life … and this area is no exception. Trent’s coaching has been invaluable! I’m thankful he’s part of my team.
I’ve learned so much in a very short period of time. I’m able to handle challenging situations now with more patience and kindness (in the past, many of those same situations would have led to conflict and distance.) I wish I had done this 20 years ago. Do your future self a favor and learn to love well when it’s not easy!
My commitment to love my wife well each day (and learning to not take things personally) has changed my life. We’re closer than we’ve ever been!
Reaching out to Trent was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. He was extremely easy to talk with about the challenges in my marriage. He genuinely cared about helping me and the tools he gave me helped immensely. My wife and I have fewer arguments now and when we do, they aren’t nearly as bad. Our relationship has more peace and good moments than ever before.
I started working with Trent to improve my marriage, but I soon found myself applying these same concepts to my other relationships as well. Being intentional about loving well has made me a better husband, father, brother, son, and friend.
Is Relationship Coaching for you?
I'd love to help you achieve your goal of loving well as your personal relationship coach. Click the link below to schedule an initial strategy call at no cost.
Gift Certificates Available
Interested in giving a loved one a gift certificate for relationship coaching? Certificates may be used online, on the golf course, or on the hiking trail. Send us a note and we'll call you to discuss options.
Note: The certificate can be from you or given anonymously.